It can get a little awkward sometimes being a single woman on Valentine’s Day. The romantic nature of the holiday is everywhere – in shop windows, online, on television…it’s impossible to escape the message that Valentine’s Day is for couples.
But you can’t just stay indoors for a week and close all the blinds. So what can you do? Here’s some suggestions for you single women out there: the single woman’s guide to surviving Valentine’s Day.
1. Take some pride in being single for this day — you get to spoil yourself and do what you want!
You don’t have to be a “victim” of Valentine’s Day hype; don’t let it make you miserable. Instead, claim the holiday and make it your own! Here’s some ideas for making that happen.
-Set up a massage or manicure on Valentine’s Day. Make it an annual event.
-Declare Shoe Shopping Day on February 14, and spend the day shopping for shoes. Let yourself splurge on a special pair of heels or boots or bedroom slippers – whatever you like best.
-Treat yourself to a small gift. Make February 14 a day when you buy yourself an accessory like a fancy hair clip, watch, necklace, bracelet, etc.
-Take yourself out for dinner to a restaurant (or have it delivered in) Go some place you’ve always wanted to go to, but never have.
You get the picture… the point is to set up an annual Valentine’s tradition that will help you actually look forward to the holiday rather than dread it.
2. Give to Others
Instead of feeling down that you’re not on the receiving end of someone’s Valentine affections, why not give instead? Think outside the box – what other single women are out there who might be lonely? A senior citizen in the nursing home? Someone in your own family? A friend? Remember, you’re not the only one who doesn’t have a someone doting on you on Valentine’s Day, and there are plenty of people outside your demographic who could use a pick-me-up on Valentine’s Day. Bake cupcakes, send a card, make a cake, take someone out to dinner, buy someone flowers or candy…
3. Celebrate with Kids
Children love Valentine’s Day, and they’re certainly not in romantic relationships! Plan a fun day of crafts and sweet treats, or take a special day trip with some children. Stay in and watch fun videos. If you’re up to it, you can host a kids’ party at your house. Send cards to relatives like nieces and nephews, or hold a Valentine’s party at your local community center, church, or elsewhere.
